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Writer's pictureBhuvana Krishnan

Stepping Back to Move Forward

Last week, I took some time for a digital detox —no phone, no books, no conversations—just quiet. It was harder than I imagined, but stepping out of this silence to find more than 200 unread messages was eye-opening. Life had gone on just fine without me glued to my devices. You don’t need a retreat to realize how much time we give to electronics and other distractions, but breaking free can feel elusive. Let’s explore why a digital detox matters—and I’d love to hear your strategies too.



Why Consider a Digital Detox?


Being hooked to electronics can make us feel connected and productive as we tackle tasks—even while standing in the checkout line at the grocery store. It serves as an escape from perceived boredom and offers a refuge to go away to a place that may be pleasant. As we scroll through social media feeds, it gives us a sense of virtual connection with friends and family who may be far away. However, what can help us become more productive has also become a nuisance. We are now expected to be connected all the time, with some applications sending read notifications that pressure us into instant responses. You might find yourself in the middle of another task or conversation, yet you still respond because it only takes a couple of seconds. Over time, these moments accumulate into what Johann Hari describes as ‘Stolen Focus’ in his book.

 

The Costs of Constant Connectivity

Here are some key insights from Hari’s book regarding constant device usage:

  • Fragmented Attention: As we devour information through our devices, we are literally drinking from the information fire hose. Research shows that as information overload increases, our attention spans shrink, making it difficult to engage deeply with tasks.

  • Multitasking Myth: Our brains can process only one conscious thought at a time. When we claim to multitask by quickly responding to a text or email in the middle of another task, we’re merely switching between tasks, losing focus and productivity. So, when your iPhone says your average screen time was 3.5 hours, it may mean much more time of lost productivity.

  • IQ and Stress: A study found that distractions from emails, calls, and texts lowered workers’ IQ by 10 points. The constant stream of notifications also creates hyper vigilance and stress, making one prone to errors.

  • Creativity Block: Creativity comes from your brain shaping new connections out of what you you’ve seen and heard and learned. Given free undistracted time, your mind will dwell on everything it has absorbed and start to draw links in a new way. No free time = no creativity

  • Memory Loss: Memory takes energy and time. Multitasking due to electronics saps the energy needed to store and recall information

  • Disrupted Sleep: The blue light from screens harms sleep quality and duration.

  • Compulsive Behaviors: Social media that keeps one hooked to devices, is designed to create addictive patterns, training our minds to crave frequent rewards like likes and notifications.

  • Disconnection from Reality: Constant device use makes it challenging to be present in the physical world, as it doesn't offer the same immediate rewards as our phones.

  • Self-interruption: Even without external triggers, people become so accustomed to interruptions that they begin to interrupt themselves, constantly checking devices out of habit creating a harmful loop.


These effects contribute to a broader attention crisis that impacts not only individual well-being but also our collective ability to address important societal issues.



Steps to Reclaim Focus and Balance

What can we do to counteract this? Here are 10 tips for starting your own digital detox:

  1. Schedule Breaks: Plan your digital time and set limits. At other times, turn off notifications and keep devices away from you.

  2. Device-Free Zones: Create areas in your home free of devices, like the bedroom or dining room.

  3. Try Timed Lockboxes: Use tools like safes or apps to enforce time away from your phone.

  4. Rediscover Hobbies: Engage in activities that don’t involve screens—painting, gardening, playing an instrument, or exercising.

  5. Embrace Nature: Replace scrolling with a walk outside or simply gazing out the window.

  6. Pause and Ask: Before picking up your phone, ask yourself if you really need it at that moment. Alternatively consider this Qi-Break

  7. Set Goals: Track your screen time and correlate it with sleep quality, emotional state, and productivity—celebrate milestones along the way!

  8. Move your body. Physical exercise, such as cardio, running, yoga, Qigong or walking can regulate heart rate, improve circulation, burn off stress, and increase endorphins (the "happy hormone"). This has a much more lasting impact on your physical, mental and spiritual well-being than the quick dopamine fix derived from device use.

  9. Prioritize Sleep: Recognize sleep as essential for sustained focus—power down devices at least an hour before bed for better rest.

  10. Consider a Digital Fast: Go device-free for a day or a week —take a break from social media and engage in mindfulness activities that nourish you.


A digital detox doesn’t require drastic measures; it starts with small, intentional changes. You might just find more time, focus, and creativity waiting on the other side.


Wishing you peace,

Bhuvana


References: PubMed

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